If my ex hadn’t come back, I probably would have Yes I am the crazy chicken lady shirt gone ahead to date and maybe eventually marry the new guy. So, is my confusion based solely on the fact, that my ex came back? He offers me something completely different from my ex, I have butterflies, I have the desire to hold him and kiss him, and I can tell he has feelings for me too, but I’m not sure what our feelings are. Don’t jump into any permanent situations without being sure. That’s not fair to anyone. Time will answer. Possibly one of them will find out and leave and you won’t have to make a choice. Possibly you’ll grow to love one more or less than the other over time.
I was tempted to tell you what I used to tell my daughters Yes I am the crazy chicken lady shirt when they were little. Just pick one. Ok, now do you feel disappointed or happy? Disappointed, then you really wanted the other one. Best of luck. I hope it works out well for all of you. We believe that men and women are equal partners, but they each have different characteristics and psychologies, and talents that the other does not have, but they still equal. The love should be equal, but its nature determined according to the needs of the person receiving it. If you just have the burning need to address her parenting in general, do it from a point of empathy, not just your annoyance.